The Surprising Reasons Why Men are Bad in Bed

Everyone wants intense, satisfying and heart-racing sex. But if your sex life is bad, how much blame do you put on your male partner?
Everyone wants intense, satisfying and heart-racing sex. But if your sex life is bad, how much blame do you put on your male partner?

It's true, women can be unpredictable in the bedroom and each woman's desires seem to be unique to another. There is a spectrum of female lovers just as there is of men. Many guys just need to be told what you like. Men often fail at "performing," but women often ironically fail to communicate what they want.

Aren't women supposed to be the communicative ones?

Still, there are common mistakes men make in the bedroom that often can be improved or avoided.

For example, women notoriously like to take their time, while men often enjoy speeding things up -- as if it were a race. 

Clinical Sexologist Dr. Ava Cadell, PhD, DHS, provides "under the covers" information on why men can be bad sexual partners, how to improve your sex life and how you can effectively communicate any issues.

Additional Info

  • Segment Number: 1
  • Audio File: staying_well/1328sw1a.mp3
  • Featured Speaker: Ava Cadell, PhD, DHS
  • Book Title: Passion Power
  • Guest Bio: Ava CadellDr. Ava Cadell's personal brand is Sexual Empowerment. She is an accomplished author of seven books, Media Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Counselor, Global Speaker and Founder of www.LoveologyUniversity.com

    Dr. Ava has a doctorate in human behavior from Newport University, CA, and a doctorate of education in human sexuality from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. Through her private practice in L.A., she counsels people on personal issues that range from fear of intimacy, lack of communication, lack of desire to sexual compulsions and sexual dysfunctions.

    Dr. Ava's mission is to promote the benefits of healthy love and sex around the world.
  • Length (mins): 10
  • Waiver Received: Yes
  • Host: Melanie Cole, MS