Do’s & Don'ts of a Breakup

Should or shouldn't you obsessively stalk your recent ex-flame on Facebook? Um, probably not.
Breakups can be hard, especially when you thought things were going great. Even though it sounds like a good idea at the time to throw things at your recent flame's head out of rage, obsessively stalk your ex's Facebook, or call and randomly hang up... it's not.

Not only are you holding on to all the upsetting emotions of the breakup that can cause even more stress and damage to your health, you're also not allowing yourself a chance to heal and move on

It's also not uncommon that since this huge change in your life just happened, you are impulsively thinking of ways to change everything else in your life: the way you look, quitting your job or just moving to a different city/state to start over.

Wanting to do these things is just a quick fix to mentally erase what just happened. However, it doesn't mean that some of these things aren't a bad idea.

Licensed psychologist, Dr. Sherrie Campbell, PhD, shares the most important do's and don'ts of a breakup, and ways that you can stay sane post-love status.

Additional Info

  • Segment Number: 3
  • Audio File: staying_well/1406sw1c.mp3
  • Featured Speaker: Sherrie Campbell, PhD
  • Book Title: Loving Yourself: The Mastery of Being Your Own Person
  • Guest Bio: SherrieCampbellHeadshotSherrie Campbell, PhD, is a veteran, licensed Psychologist with two decades of clinical training and experience providing counseling and psychotherapy services to residents of Yorba Linda, Irvine, Anaheim, Fullerton and Brea, California.

    In her private practice, she currently specializes in psychotherapy with adults and teenagers, including marriage and family therapy, grief counseling, childhood trauma, sexual issues, personality disorders, illness and more.

    She has helped individuals manage their highest high and survive their lowest low—from winning the lottery to the death of a child. Her interactive sessions are as unique and impactful as her new book, Loving Yourself : The Mastery of Being Your Own Person.

    She earned her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology in 2003 and has regularly contributes to numerous publications, including Intent.com, Beliefnet.com, DrLaura.com and Hitched.com. She is also an inspirational speaker, avid writer and proud mother.
  • Length (mins): 10
  • Waiver Received: No
  • Internal Notes: eWaiver
  • Host: Melanie Cole, MS